[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by cookiemonster [/i]\r\n[B]Yes, but there is a stark difference between recollecting the past in your mind/brain/heart (wherever these things reside), as opposed to your fist. I think it should be supplemented by forgiveness?\r\n\r\nSo rather than the popular 'forgive and forget', perhaps 'don't forget, but forgive' (thats if you can reconcile those two principles as an individual. For some, they may be mutually exclusive)\r\n\r\nI don't think i'll take up writing slogans or blurbs, it hardly glides off the tongue does it :D [/B][/QUOTE] \r\n\r\nI think that that's the general tenor of the comment, Cookie. Learn the lessons of the past and move on, but neither ignore them completely nor use them as a basis for revenge. To quote a less distinguished commentator, Tevye from "Fiddler on the roof", insist on an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth and the whole world ends up blind and toothless.