As many of you know, I recently bought my first house, took on mortgage, etc. You all know the financial implications of such a move. With a lot of help from my overly generous (but well-paid and comfortably off) parents, I don't have any particular financial worries at this time. However, my great-uncle (my only remaining relative of that generation, and one of whom I am quite fond) has sent me a cheque for £100 as a gift toward setting up home. He is very elderly (over 80), not in wonderful health (he was a heavy smoker for many years) and is rather frail. I don't know how well-off he is (he has a very nice house in very expensive camberley, but I believe it was all paid for many years ago. I don't know how he is in terms of liquid assets). What should I do? 1) Gratefully accept the gift, and put it toward something tangible on the house. 2) Gratefully accept the gift, but not cash the cheque. 3) Not accept the gift. I'm very disinclined to do 3. It would just be rude. I am considering 2, however, because I don't feel that I need the money and think that it might be over-generous on his part. Or should I just accept that a man who was an accountant for a big firm for many years can manage his money and make the best use possible of it?