Based on my experience with a Tesserac power amp, you might be glad that you were outbid! I found a Tesserac power amp to be very thin sounding and forward/bright - so if that is their "house sound", I for one would give it a miss!
I would imagine that the Graaf would go well with the Rotel power amp - I can't imagine there would be a technical incompatibility.
A passive pre-amp is simply a volume control and input switching device - a passive pre does not amplify the signal at all (which active pre-amps do) - passives are therefore much simpler and more 'purist' than the more usual active pre-amps. Passives have no mains input, they are not powered at all (unless they have remote control, mains power is then required to rotate the volume knob or activate input switching). They therefore have no power supplies to get wrong - decent power supplies are one of the main costs of most good active pre-amps.
There is one main potential problem with passives - the volume level available is more limited - depending on the sensitivity of your power amp input and the loudspeakers they drive there may or may not be enough volume level to make the music loud enough for you. I am sure that this is one of the reasons that NVA offer a money back promise if you don't get on with their passive pre-amps.
Decent passive pre-amps like the NVA can sound wonderfully open and transparent and detailed - you'd have to spend thousands of £ imho to get the same quality with an active pre-amp. The sonic drawback of passive pre-amps can be that they lack the 'drive' and 'slam' of a good active pre. You pays your money and make your choice!
(You should also use fairly short (1m or less) interconnect cables to go from a passive pre to the power amp).
Other excellent passive pre-amps are the TVC (transformer volume control) types - e.g. from Promitheus at moderate price levels. See this link for example
www.promitheusaudio.com/tvc.htm
Hope my wittering helps! All this just my own views of course - others may differ.
